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Added a video to Catgroove.

Feb 20, 2014 at 04:00PM EST

Commented on 23f.gif

So I’m guessing this only has downvotes because it’s pony, right? Because otherwise, it is a perfectly good and acceptable example.

Dec 11, 2013 at 01:54AM EST

Commented on Be Strong For Mother

I feel like this quote is a reference to some old movie but I honestly don’t know what it is.

Oct 25, 2013 at 11:25AM EDT

Commented on Jimbles Notronbo

I mean, I’ve seen it a number of times but I can’t say for sure that it’s widespread enough to be considered memetic. More of a small-scale tumblr inside joke.

Sep 09, 2013 at 03:32PM EDT

Uploaded an image to Dinkleberg.

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Sep 04, 2013 at 12:00AM EDT

Commented on 95c.jpg

But just because a woman rejects a man’s sexual advances, it does not mean she is a slut or a bitch. It just means that she does not wish to have sex with that particular man at that particular time. She is not attempting to get something out of him, she is not trying to make him “work for it,” she is literally saying NO I DO NOT WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU AND YOU ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY MIND BY TRYING HARDER.

That is the basis of our problem here; that a man would think a woman rejected him because he’s not good enough, and all he has to do is keep trying, and maybe offer her something in return for this momentous favor she is doing for him by allowing him to have sex with her--because that’s what it is, it’s not about what she wants, it is a favor she is doing for the man--but the fact is that you can say no as much as you want and chances are the guy will keep trying. Maybe he’ll even give up on asking and just rape you.

Please tell me that you understand that there is a problem here.

Jul 22, 2013 at 03:54PM EDT

Commented on 95c.jpg

Look, I agree with you there.

What I’m saying is that we apply different values of sex to men and women. While men are expected to want sex, society generally looks down upon women who take control of their own sexuality. There is this idea that it is a man’s job to try to get women to have sex with him, and it is a woman’s job to say no. Of course, the longer she says no, the more she is considered a bitch, but when she says yes, it means she is a slut. Do you see the deeply-ingrained and internalized prejudice we have going on here?

Yes, it generally is easier for a woman to find a willing male sexual partner than the other way around. But that doesn’t mean women “fuck for status” (only sleep with wealthy men), or for material gain, or control, or any of those things. Women sleep with people they want to sleep with, and while a select few people (both male and female) are manipulative and are willing to use sex as a means of leverage, that is most often not the case. Sex isn’t supposed to be about manipulation; it is about engaging in a pleasurable activity with a person you are sexually attracted to. Whether or not this is done with a romantic partner, or a stranger, or a friend, or an acquaintance, has absolutely nothing to do with “sluttiness.”

(to be continued…)

Jul 22, 2013 at 03:53PM EDT

Commented on e20.png

Well… they got the second and seventh ones right.

Jul 22, 2013 at 12:25AM EDT

Commented on Gender Confusion

You seem to be confusing the terms transvestite and transgender/transexual. A transvestite is someone who identifies as one gender but occasionally dresses like a different gender. A transgender is someone whose gender does not “match” their biological sex--though this term does not apply to every gender-variant person. A transexual is a transgender who is taking steps to/already has changed the appearance of their secondary sexual characteristics in order to “match” the gender they identify with.

Jul 17, 2013 at 03:54PM EDT

Uploaded an image to Homestuck.

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May 23, 2013 at 10:30PM EDT

Commented on Moon Moon

I was wondering when this would show up here…

Apr 24, 2013 at 05:25PM EDT

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