Komi Can't Communicate - Now the question is, though... is this gay?

Whether it's gay, straight, bi, or whatever the term is for being sexually attracted to a fully androgynous non-binary person, all that truly matters is that this is hot.

See, you say that Najimi is a boy pretending to be a girl, but I pose this question:
What if, during middle school, Najimi was a girl, pretending to be a boy? What if now, in high school, she's simply grown out of her crossdressing phase?
This is a question that keeps me up at night, a dilemma I have dubbed, "Schrodinger's Genitals"