Doom - Greatest Struggle

>DILF and Yaoi on the same level as Gore, Scat, and others.

How about no?

Traps are men who pretend to be women but ultimately identify as men despite wearing girly clothes.

Tomboys are girls who dress in "boy clothes" but make no attempt to hide the fact that they identify as girls.

The Female Equivalent of a Trap is a Reverse Trap, a girl who looks boyish, dresses boyish, pretends to be a boy but ultimately identifies as a girl.