so here are your mistakes yander dev
1.going to /v/,
2. going to /v/ for advise
3. expecting /v/ to universally civil, I.E. /v/ is one person meme.
4. assuming a moderated setting is preferable to a non-moderated one, in that criticism can be represented in reconstructive and constructive terms
5.FINAL ONE throwing a shit fit, you've even made me angry with you, why guy

>expecting anything good out of 4chan

In all honesty, I'm not sure what he expected

The vocal minority will always scream and cry at any site, 4chan doesn't really help you ignore them though.

Which i suppose is a good and bad thing