![Posted by u/GreenLeaves13904 hours ago My (27f) bf (34m) wants to name our daughter Frodo [new] Hi Reddit My bf and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. My boyfriend is sweet, smart, attractive and funny. We almost never argued (until recently), because he daughter Frodo (after the Lord of the Rings character). When wants to name our we first found out that I was pregnant, I promised that he could name our child. I wanted him to feel important and included in the pregnancy. He's a great guy and I know that he will be an amazing father too. That said, he started saying that if we have a son, we will name him Frodo. I thought he was joking because he didn't seem that serious. When we found out we were having a girl, he said that he thought Frodo would still be a good name. I still thought he was joining until people started asking if we "had a name yet." My bf would tell people that we were naming our daughter Frodo. Eventually I confronted my bf and told him to stop, that my parents had asked if he was serious. My boyfriend got mad. He asked why I agreed to the joking, but he got name if I didn't want it. I tried to tell him I thought he was more mad. We've been arguing almost nonstop for the past 2 weeks and he is now threatening that he won't be able to bond with our daughter because her new name will always remind him of his disappointment at her not being named Frodo. I don't know what to do. We are great together and I don't want to break up over this. We are great together otherwise, except for this issue. Likewise, I DID promise that he could name our child. I suggested he could choose a different name from Lord if the Rings, but he is adamant that our daughter must be named Frodo. I just don't want her getting teased or discriminated against because I think the name sounds silly, and not even like a girls name. I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions on how to handle this? Should I let my bf name our daughter Frodo? Thanks in advance TL;DR: Promised bf he could name our daughter, he chose the name "Frodo" from Lord of the Rings. Giving birth soon but he won't budge on the name. Says he won't be able to bond with daughter if she has a different name. Scared daughter will be teased but don't want to end the relationship or break my promise to my partner. Not sure what to do](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/557/104/5ff.png "r/relationships 9")
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