Is it okay if I dislike them, not because they are attractive, but because I'm really sick of the "smug/abusive anime girl" trope?

The lack of self-awareness in some progressives honestly astounds me. They don't see they are just as obsessed with modesty as conservatives in the late 20th century, except instead of just being honest, they dress it up as unrealistic expectations or, if they are feeling real stupid, pedophilia.