I see….. It all make sense now. Bismuth didn’t aimed for Lapis because she thougth she was a threath. She saw her trying to run away. No, she poofed her because she was an aristocrat, and she hate them with a passion. And of course, she aimed right for the gem. Guess that’s what gave her the idea for the breaking point. She must have been disapointed her punch didn’t shattered her…..

mirror gem and ocean gem doesn't happen
house guest doesn't happen
the message doesn't happen
the return as it unfolded doesn't happen
jail break as it ended doesn't happen
no malachite saga
no gay barn

that's the simple map.
much more complex if you point out the details