When are people gonna catch on that this is like an escapism self-insert kinda thing. People aren't getting hype for an adult woman having sexual relations with a kid, they're getting hype because they want to be in that kind of an fdom male sub relationship or otherwise like the idea of a "motherly partner" in the same way some girls like ddlg and older men. It just so happens that the female characters commonly depicted are also cute or well designed in the case of pochi's characters.

Now reverse the genders, and this would be fucked up, but somehow the opposite isn't

I understand why people just find this meme funny (and that's fine), in my case i can't because i hate any form of double standards.

there is a golden rule for this
If you switch the races/genders in a situation and it turns out racist/sexist/fucked up, it ALREADY IS