Yeah… He seems like he'd be a really abusive prick no matter what relationship he's in.

That’s different. Sakura has an unnatural obsession with Sasuke even after all the shit he’s done; and Sasuke’s anger is 1/10th the size of Bakugo’s. Uraraka has no such obsession for Bakugo and neither does he. In fact, it would be more accurate to say Uraraka has an obsession with Deku. Besides nearly killing her on the two occasions, the two have very little correlation elsewhere, unlike Sakura who was always on Sasuke’s case until he eventually relented.