I would love to see you put in the shoes of a female cosplayer (especially in the comic book fandom) and tell me men are treated just as poorly. I'm pretty sure if someone calls you a fatass whale and you feel bad about it it's their fault for being an asshole not your fault for "not getting over it" and I'm pretty sure it's not unreasonable to want people to stop being assholes to you.

WOW! Would'ya look at all those looooong comments…