& looking back now, how effective or ineffective do you think it was? How do you plan to discipline your future kids, if you want them?
My mom did all the punishing in our family because we're all girls and my dad was a youngest child so he's really like… forgiving and unwilling to ground/discipline me or my little sister at all. Poor guy. When we were really little my mom would make us sit in a chair facing the wall and read aloud from the bible. When we were "old enough to know better" she'd smack us in the ass with the big sauce spoon (we're Italian). She still uses that spoon as an arm extension even though we're all adults now. _
Reading to a wall is really effective when you're little but eventually you're like whatever, I'll just have to read for a bit if I get in trouble and it stops working out. The spoon is very effective lmaaooo I don't think I ever pissed my ma off twice with the same crime. We were admittedly TERRIBLE early/mid teens though, like my parents could have had me and my little sister committed and I would have understood. After some of the things my sister did I am surprised she is still with us today, because I'm so sure our mom wanted to kill her dead (like the first time she came back with a tattoo, that was a blast). She still does tbh but now she's 21 and they don't bother anymore. We broke our poor parents by the end of it all