Amir Talai @AmirTalai Follow Women BEEN #MeTooing for too long. It's time for more men to admit #lveDoneThat so we can take responsibility & truly change our behavior. CW: sexual assault. I'm a woke-ass feminist, which means I have never been abusive or s----- to women. PYSCH!!! I have been (and still am on occasion) s----- to women. I contribute(d) to and participate(d) in r--- culture and toxic masculinity. Used to be, when I got drunk, I'd get HANDSY. I justified it in my head because I only did it to female friends who I assumed saw me as I saw myself: as a "non-threatening" "nice guy" who "obviously" couldn't be a "predator". Which, obviously, is b-------. And even if every single one of those women did see me that way, it's still not ok. Because I was contributing to a culture in which men assume consent far far more often than we can, which is almost never. (Fwiw, I think consent CAN be assumed on rare occasions like I can assume I have consent for the rest our marriage to kiss Nina's cheek). And I still get caught up in making jokes and comments that are a part of r--- culture. And if I don't make them, I allow them to be made in my presence. I usually check my friends who make inappropriate jokes, but definitely not always. Men, we all contribute to this s---. We may not all be Harvey Weinstein, but we are all, in some way, Weinstein's enablers. Let's be clear, this doesn't mean "we are all rapists" and it CERTAINLY doesn't mean "this is just the way men are, period" What this means is, first off, LISTEN TO WOMEN. Read the #MeToo hashtag. Go back and read the #YesAllWomen hashtag. Read books by women. Consume stories by women. Understand the s--- we've put them through. And at the same time, REFLECT. EXAMINE. INTERROGATE. Look at the ways you participate in this s---. Again, you will usually not be the primary culprit, but you will often be the silent enabler. The dude that looks the other way, or worse, the dude that laughs or eggs the primary culprit on. Look at yourself, own it, and then do everything in your power to change it.

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Zachary Leeman @WritingLeeman Soooo...we can all agree that if the roles were reversed, Brad Pitt would be losing his career and people would be screaming #metoo, correct? DON Brad Pitt gets surprised with a KISS from Lena Dunham On Tuesday evening the 33-year-old Girls star was photographed kissing the movie icon, who has been single since splitting from Angelina Jolie in 2016, in .. dailymail.co.uk 4:07 PM Jul 31, 2019 Twitter for iPhone

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Seeing all the people come forward with their sharing, myself included, reminds me that the dudes need to step it up. I try really hard to be a good dude knowing that I came from a toxic, patriarchal culture. I'm not proud of it, but l don't shy away from it. I wasn't a "different person" but I definitely had a different mindset. My ignorance could only go so far and I can't really fall back on that as an excuse. I read up on PUA nonsense, was a misogynist, ignored or overlooked friends doing, was handsy, and even was privy to being a "nice guy.' It's like looking at an ugly photo of yourself because you're surprised that ever WAS you. M△RK of the Beast @MarkEIDude·Oct 16 You can't be a-woke ass dude feminist until you-takė responsibility that you're guilty of s--- too. #1veDoneThat

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Alex Soul Rots" × And if you're the guy, reading this. Absolutely f--- you for what you did. F--- you for running away when called out. For hiding. You worm. @solwat Oct 16 2 27 Alex Soul Rots @solwat Follow #HowlWil!Change? Never accept the diversion tactics of abusers. Never enable, even passively, the behaviors that lead to this 8:16 PM-16 Oct 2017

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Benjamin Law @mrbenjaminlaw Follow Guys, it's our turn. After yesterday's endless #MeToo stories of women being abused, assaulted and harassed, today we say #HowlWil!Change. 6:15 PM-16 Oct 2017

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Me too. (NOTE: Just chiming in to point out it's a pervasive issue. Lots of women have had to deal with 1000x the shit I've experienced)

Me too. (NOTE: Just chiming in to point out it's a pervasive issue. Lots of women have had to deal with 1000x the s--- l've experienced)

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Im not a woman but "me too" when I was a kid. I was just told its par for the course in the coal region& 2accept it. So many pigs on the DL.

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If a trans man who has been both by cis men due to being mistaken for a woman counts, then me too.

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Me too. I don’t know if means anything coming from a gay man but it’s happened. Multiple times.

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Amir Talai @AmirTalai Follow Women BEEN #MeTooing for too long. It's time for more men to admit #lveDoneThat so we can take responsibility & truly change our behavior. CW: sexual assault. I'm a woke-ass feminist, which means I have never been abusive or s----- to women. PYSCH!!! I have been (and still am on occasion) s----- to women. I contribute(d) to and participate(d) in r--- culture and toxic masculinity. Used to be, when I got drunk, I'd get HANDSY. I justified it in my head because I only did it to female friends who I assumed saw me as I saw myself: as a "non-threatening" "nice guy" who "obviously" couldn't be a "predator". Which, obviously, is b-------. And even if every single one of those women did see me that way, it's still not ok. Because I was contributing to a culture in which men assume consent far far more often than we can, which is almost never. (Fwiw, I think consent CAN be assumed on rare occasions like I can assume I have consent for the rest our marriage to kiss Nina's cheek). And I still get caught up in making jokes and comments that are a part of r--- culture. And if I don't make them, I allow them to be made in my presence. I usually check my friends who make inappropriate jokes, but definitely not always. Men, we all contribute to this s---. We may not all be Harvey Weinstein, but we are all, in some way, Weinstein's enablers. Let's be clear, this doesn't mean "we are all rapists" and it CERTAINLY doesn't mean "this is just the way men are, period" What this means is, first off, LISTEN TO WOMEN. Read the #MeToo hashtag. Go back and read the #YesAllWomen hashtag. Read books by women. Consume stories by women. Understand the s--- we've put them through. And at the same time, REFLECT. EXAMINE. INTERROGATE. Look at the ways you participate in this s---. Again, you will usually not be the primary culprit, but you will often be the silent enabler. The dude that looks the other way, or worse, the dude that laughs or eggs the primary culprit on. Look at yourself, own it, and then do everything in your power to change it.

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