No sir, I am just using my girl friend for sex.

>If you're not attracted to members of another race, you're a racist piece of shit.
>"You mean you're only attracted to white people? What are you, a white supremacist? You're a fucking racist!"

>If you're attracted to members of another race, you're just a weird creep who fetishizes other races.
>"You've got an Asian girlfriend? Are you one of those weird perverts who fantasizes about foreign chicks? You're a fucking racist!"

I've heard both these arguments, sometimes from the same people. Be honest with yourself about what you're attracted to, do what's fulfilling, and tell those fuckers to eat shit and die. If that makes you a "racist", then fine, be a "racist" and be proud.