I like how the Internet normalized Shelley Duval lookalikes as being cute and deserving love.

I hate how the Internet normalized Shelley Duval lookalikes having to suffer as part of their character arc.

The text on the grave says "A tiny flower lent not given, to bud on earth and bloom in heaven" and has a picture of a child angel on it. And since it's Anya grieving here, there's only one child, or potential child, it could be connected to.