I have no doubt what happened to her sucked, in a ¨first world problems¨ kind of way.
But we all make mistakes, and live with the consequences, some live with far worse than hers.
And, speaking for myself atleast, all sympathy i may have had is gone when someone simply refuses to live with those consequences and willingly, needlessly ends their own lives.

Also, it's the internet. Don't expect people to be respectful…they won't be.