"You shouldn't have worn that shirt, you deserved it" is the same thing as "you shouldn't have worn that minidress, you deserved it". The fact that you dare trying to tone down one over the other because of gender and/or because you think it's "less damaging" to someone is horrifying.
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Tomberry Moderator
Nov 15, 2014 at 09:15PM EST in reply to
SpiritsNocab
Nov 15, 2014 at 07:54PM EST