I disagree with you, and I'll likely make that quite clear shortly, but I want to thank you for being the best person I've debated/argued with on this issue. Laying out morals isn't easy.
My main arguments are also on consent, responsibility (for everyone) and preservation of life, but I think I went about it differently. I'll also add a bit on social responsibility, human rights and "common good", which is something I seem to use pretty often.
To go over the two scenarios you mentioned:
1)A women who was assaulted is already a victim, she had no consent. Her choice and the help she needs is paramount, and I really don't like the instances where other people try to guilt her for terminating any pregnancy that occurs.
2) I think this is a grey case. You cannot legally make someone sell essential organs, since duress and the amount of harm it would cause to your quality of life, and the potential of abuse makes it inacceptable. If this principle isn't respected, I can see some very dystropian issues of exploitation of the poorest.
Human beings have basic rights, there's a limit on how down you can tread before the responsible ine must be judged for crimes against humanity.
The same way an individual has a responsibility, the hospital has a responsibility, do you understand? Any harm falls on that instance, all of the blame should fall on the hospital head. I'll talk more of social responsibility later, in point 2.
Points:
1) I can accept the distinction between life at conception, that of never being conceived and that of a baby being born. However, I think that the issue then is less of when life starts, and of the life and happiness of the mother, and the issue of what seems to me a moralist need to cause others to suffer for their fault.
Let's face it, we shouldn't gloss over the details on the event of a mother that really doesn't want a child tends and how it tends to end in tragedy. The stress of a forced pregnancy can be harmful for both, which can terminate the pregnancy by itself, with harm done to the mother depending on how advanced it was. Then there are the issues of those who go for abortion in other ways, it's less likely that one will expiate on one's sins, and instead go for a blackmarket, which ks far more dangerous.
Add post partum psychosis and we would need a significant amount of manpower to avoid the worst fate to the babies born in these situations, which I will adress in point 2.
For point 1 however, I'll ask whether sadism and torture not a crime? (I mean the US did torture, as did other countries, but it shouldn't be accepted as matter of fact).
2) I think this will be my main point. I think too many judge from on-high, and assistance is mentioned as if it's charity. No, it is an obligation, those who chain others with responsibility must chain themselves as well. If one can't or won't, one shouldn't.
I didn't mention the possible consequences of filled and underfunded orphanages, abandoned children, rising crime, overloaded welfare, maimed women and deaths as a concern. If these occur, if these states do not follow your guidelines, or the guidelines of any of the politicians who refused to foresee the harm in it, they still bear the responsibility for it. One thing that also annoyed me is how many seem to take a neutral view, as if they are not responsible as well, or don't even mention, how the father and the whole structure around it will have to take responsibility, and the suffering involved. Will they be able to do so?
You are just a citizen, I guess, like me. However policymakers and politicians have to duty to understand and weigh in the consequences of their actions. If their policy causes unintended suffering, they are still at fault for incompetence. Anyone who engages in harmful policies for their own moral satisfaction must compensate if possible, if they can't or won't, they pay for it, which has included having their head on a pike.
This is also why I'm fired up about so many being detached, because honestly? I suspect some believe it won't really affect the people discussing it, just be a soundbyte in the background of a news if it goes bad. Unacceptable.
Too many bang on about personal morality, but don't see that their actions may cause more widespread social suffering, but don't or can't link it to themselves. Have you heard of the mass-graves of hundreds of children in Ireland. Who was responsible for this horror? The children, the mothers, or the catholics church? Including the brutality of the nuns running these institutions, who though near slave labour was an appropriate responsibility.
People are rarely brought to justice for the little white crimes that snowball into disasters bigger than any single criminal can do. Too many priests, preach then don't care on the effect of their sermons. Social ills are far worse for more people, and the perpetrators never take responsibility for it (perhaps because there's too many) and since they don't it's a duty to avoid causing them, to think carefully, because the negative effects are on the heads of everyone!
3) I think the idea of responsibility, bodily autonomy and such was addressed in point 2.
The irony is I'll use the same summary: Actions have consequences. One should avoid engaging in the actions one is not willing to face the consequences of. Everyone involved, we as humans are rarely neutral observers, and decision makers are not.
I really don't like religions which preach, but act separate to the consequences, which they often do.
EDIT: So, in a weird way if priests actually acted like priests, I wouldn't have as much a problem with them.