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Komesarj Leaves the Incel Community

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Overview

Komesarj Leaves the Incel Community refers to the reactions and backlash after Komesarj, a moderator for incels.is and looskmax.org, announced that he would be leaving the incel community in April 2023. Following Komesarj's announcement, Twitter user @lameypilled shared several screenshots of users, assumedly incels, criticizing Komesarj's decision, which subsequently went viral. According to Komesarj, the Twitter post is what caused backlash and many members of incels.is were happy with his decision to leave.

Background

Komesarj is a former moderator of incel.is, one of the top forums for discussions surrounding the involuntary celibate community. He is also a moderator at looksmax.org, another incel-heavy forum made to discuss looksmaxxing and lookism practices like bonesmashing and mewing. In his Twitter bio, he refers to himself as "the 'Lebron James' of incels."

On April 24th, 2023, @Komesarj announced on Twitter[1] that he was leaving the community, writing, "I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. While it feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going to miss all the friends and connections I've made. To all of you who have supported me over the years, thank you. I start a new chapter in my life, albeit late," garnering over 280 likes in two days (shown below). Komesarj also made a post announcing his departure on incels.is, but it was deleted after going viral according to DMs between Know Your Meme and Komesarj. It has been archived by the Wayback Machine.[8]


Komesarj @komesarj I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. While it feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going to miss all the friends and connections I've made. To all of you who have supported me over the years, thank you. I start a new chapter in my life, albeit late. 12:46 PM. Apr 24, 2023 233.9K Views . ...

Developments

Komesarj received some backlash from Twitters users the day he made his post. For example, on April 24th, 2023, Twitter[2] user @AJ09269661 commented on the post, "It’s honestly disgusting that you betray your community when some chick finally settles for you." Komesarj responded, writing, "We’ll enjoy being a virgin for some weird cause. No one wants to be incel lol. We’re not Jedi (shown below).


AJ @AJ09269661. Apr 24 It's honestly disgusting that you betray your community when some chick finally settles for you. 13 17 8 21 Komesarj @komesarj Komesarj @komesarj - Apr 24 We'll enjoy being a virgin for some weird cause. No one wants to be incel lol. We're not Jedi. 3 17 6 1 16 155 il 14.5K AJ @AJØ9269661 - Apr 24 This is why the incel community will never start a movement and bring about change. It only takes one hoe to sacrifice herself and give some crumbs of p---- and the whole movement would collapse due to too many betraying. 16 8 11.1K 1 ill 11.8K *** Inceldom isn't some club or movement. It's a bunch of men who are ostracized from society and lack romantic relationships. We're not fight club lol. Maby stop watching so many movies and join us back in reality. 2:07 PM - Apr 24, 2023 - 5,333 Views

On April 25th, 2023, Twitter[3] user @lameypilled started a thread sharing several quote-tweets to Komesarj's post from users criticizing his decision to leave the community, writing, "🚨 BREAKING: The Incel community is having a nuclear meltdown because one of their leaders finally got laid," garnering over 85,500 likes in a day. The user updated the thread three more times that day with new screenshots, including images of Komesarj and AJ09269661's argument, Komesarj replying to other users dogpiling him and Komesarj claiming his girlfriend knows about his prior incel status (shown below).


Laney + @lameypilled. Apr 25 BREAKING: The Incel community is having a nuclear meltdown because one of their leaders finally got laid. @komesarj I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. While it feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going to miss all the friends and connections I've made. To all of you who have supported me over the years, thank you I start a new @IncelsCo Why do you leave? Did you manage to stop being an incel? And so then, do you feel no longer being identified with so many sad depressed men out there?Imagine if normal people are clueless & careless about being a virgin past 1,775 18.1K . Laney + @lameypilled - Apr 25 UPDATE: The Incel Civil War is beginning.. Stay tuned for more updates. 85.6K bring about change. It only takes one hoe to sacrifice herself and give some crumbs of p---- and the whole movement would collapse due to too many betraying. 92 174 1,610 Komesarj @komesarj. 16h movement and voice becomes. 13 ♡5 860 Komesarj @komesarj. 15h Replying to @AJ09269661 There's no movement man. If you are staying a virgin for some cause you need to stop now and reflect deeply on life. No one in their right Replying to @komesarj It's honestly disgusting that you betray your community when some chick finally settles for you. 04 172 10 lil 1,874 Komesarj @komesarj - 16h We'll enjoy being a virgin for some weird cause. No one wants to be This the equivalent of lebron retiring, the incel community has lost their biggest prospect Komesarj @komes.... 17h I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. While it feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going il 10.7M ↑ ... Picnic BoyX+...... 16h Replying to @komesarj Don't worry, no one will miss you fakecel. I hope the stinky hole yo got was worth it! 92 12 ♡₂ AR @freebobuxnoscam 13h Replying to @komesarj Traitor 473 a il 145 Komesarj @komesarj - 13h To whom? 151 ... 9.8 Laney + @lameypilled - Apr 25 BREAKING: The Incel Leader known as "komesarj" will be stepping down and relinquishing all official titles. It remains to be seen if the populist-radical fringe of the Incel movement will take advantage of this power vacuum. ok: XXXX@sjmmurdock 19h plying to @komesarj y in touch with your friends! 22 @sjmmurdock le reason many people w mesarj @komesarj 19h plying to @sjmmurdock go to the community to to the very people for wh tend to, but from the outside. hity is made for are marg nmunity is incel only. pid this non incels are no 22 ♡1 alt 1, 43 Laney + @lameypilled 13 446 sarj @komesarj-21h es my Twitter. She knows. BREAKING: The woman associating with the former Incel Leader known as "Komesarj" is aware of his high rank in the Incel Community. Tears of joy have been reported as well. Some members of the community have been issuing vague "threats" implying they will "be back". Komesa kom 8,177 cross the bridge nesarj omesarj 54 Otsson 3 Apr 24 You at the equivalent of a dropout having 600k in his shitcoin wallet. Get rich quick, get poor quick. No one competent will ever the ben the verge of luck il 569.9K Kamigawa Wizard @TFWhoCatgirl-21h Komesarj@komesar-Apr 24 ying to @komesarj I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. V feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going to miss all the friends you tell the lady you're a moderator for the world's mo connections I've made. To all of you who have supported me ov minent incel forum? years, thank you. I start a new chapter in my life, albeit late. congrats Old Man Boy P---- @boypussyrises 13h One taste of p---- ple and a man will tum his back on his friends that 13 cabe @biflexuall-Apr 25 Replying to @JrMoneyGetting on Fm in tears D *** la 346 Komesarj@komesar) Apr 24 I feel a lot of mixed feeling about leaving the incel community. W feels good to no longer be incel. I'm going to miss all the friends connections I've made. To all of you who have supported me ov years, thank you. I start a new chapter in my life, albelt late. 12 863

Online Reactions

As @lameypilled's post went viral, Twitter users began quote-retweeting it with memes about Komesarj ascending from inceldom (examples shown below). That day, a thread was started on incel.is[7] discussing his departure titled, "Why are some of ya'll mad that Komesarj ascended and left?" The OP criticizes people for giving Komesarj a hard time over leaving the community, writing, "He changed himself for the better and thus reaped the fruit of his labor. I understand that some of you are also trying to change for the better and I think that is great. I think their may be some hypocrisy caused by jealousy."


India Pale Ale Defender @Trev_Internet Me, taking once last look at my virgin friends after getting one ounce of p---- Laney + @lameypilled - Apr 25 . BREAKING: The Incel community is having a nuclear meltdown because one of their leaders finally got laid. Show this thread Milo Has Changed @WendySnowRadish This actually happened to this man oh my god nes @feydemon nihilists after getting their first f------ under the table at applebees I WANT TO LIVE!! : ... Like a Vonté: Ishin @NepSwirl Redux How dude felt after having sex for the first time II GIF ALT Laney + @lameypilled. Apr 25 BREAKING: The Incel community is having a nuclear meltdown because one of their leaders finally got laid. Show this thread ...

Komesarj also began defending himself against Twitter users posting at him about his decision. For example, on April 25th, 2023, he responded[4] to a user who posted,[5] "lmfao at this incel leader having to leave 'the community' after getting laid a single time," writing, "Stay in community BAD. Leave the community BAD. No winning for incelkind." On April 26th, he quote-retweeted[6] a post sharing the alleged account of his girlfriend, writing, "Roasties seething at my enlightened and pure of heart gf" (examples shown below).


Komesarj @komesarj She is watching this with me right now. I am the same and always be. Those who hide who they are are cowards, and when they pass from this world will never be allowed in Inceldia. The Lil Criminal Potato @lotussandwixh - 17h Was part of the reason is that you concealed some of those misogynistic traits? Did you work on being more likable? Also would you say this disputes black pill theory as well? twitter.com/komesarj/statu... 8:46 PM . Apr 25, 2023 · 6,300 Views Komesarj @komesarj Roasties seething at my enlightened and pure of heart gf. canonically online @conceptualgems. 7h found a new type of pick me... the type to willingly deflower an incel in his thirties twitter.com/lameypilled/st... ネットパトローラー @user9263372017 3402 KOMESARJ GF a(><)e ♡ Gick med april 2023 @komesarj Översätt tweeten Age cucks seething because I got the cutie pure virgin gf they said we never could. Följ Dr. Jen Golbeck x4 @jengolb... 12 h LOL did you see he's 33 and his girlfriend is 7:14 AM. Apr 26, 2023 5,448 Views + @user9263372017 A man should hate all women aside from his gf Översätt tweeten 12:21 2023-04-26 109 visningar 1 Datuent pairbonding used up women :

Interview With Komesarj

On April 26th, Know Your Meme spoke with Komesarj over DM to learn more about leaving the incel community and the backlash. Komesarj told us that he has been an incel for about four years and modded incel.is for one year, also running their Discord channel. During the exchange, Komesarj told us that the "dogpiling" only started after @lameypilled made her post and that the community at incels.is were happy for him:

There were three people who I didn't even know who said super weird things. She just turned it into a thread for clout. I’ve been in the community for years and never heard of these randoms. Most incels wished me very good luck. A bunch of people outside the community however found out and then started dogpiling.

He writes that he got into the community when he was ill for many years, leaving him "bedridden and mostly alone" (quoted below).

I was very ill for many years. Bedridden and mostly alone and before that I had no romantic luck. So being essentially homebound I reached out to a community where I could find people who understood my situation.

When asked why he left, he wrote that he "graduated" from the community, meaning he got a girlfriend. When asked his opinion on the incel community, he wrote:

It’s a mixed bag. Like everywhere. There are some good people, most are neutral, and some are bad. I tried to make friend with the good, and those people will be my friends for life. Many are suspicious of people who advocate for improving your life, cause they’re snake oil salesmen, but I hope saying that I made it can motivate some to do things to improve the idea. Society beats up on a lot of these guys and they lose motivation. They feel effort is not worth it.

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External References

[1] Twitter – komesarj

[2] Twitter – AJ09269661

[3] Twitter – lameypilled

[4] Twitter – komesarj

[5] Twitter – komesarj

[6] Twitter – komesarj

[7] Incel.is – ThatITguy27

[8] Wayback – Goodbye and Thank you My Friends

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Crowley
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I thought the point of an incel meant "involuntary celibacy". Considering everyone in the incel community is there involuntarily, every single one of them would leave if they could, by its very definition.
So what's the problem? Guy escaped his cage and is happy, let him live.

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