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#RIPReese is a hashtag cataloging the discussion surrounding the death of Maurice "Reese Him Daddie" Willoughby, who committed suicide in August 2019. The hashtag has also been used to bring awareness to violence and bullying against the transgender community and those who have relationships with transgender people, referencing a video in which Willoughby is bullied for having a romantic relationship with a transwoman.

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On August 19th, 2019, the website Aazios[1] reported that Maurice "Reese Him Daddie" Willoughby had committed suicide. While they note that Willoughby suffered from depression, the article reports, "Friends say a lot of the bullying stemmed from the fact that he was so open" about dating a transwoman.

That day, Instagram [2] user @g0ddessssss posted a picture of Willoughby. They ended the post with the caption "#ripreese." The post received more than 200 likes in one week (shown below).


goddessssss Follow goddessssss When I first met you cursed you out for staring at me... you said I was gorgeous so l couldn't be mad. then we got to know each other. I remember I woke up at looked at my phone and saw a paragraph from you that made me smile.. but I knew you before you even knew yourself... we had that talk and the next day you came to school with colorful box braids in your hair & black nail polish. I couldn't even be mad because I knew... you were just living your truth You use to tell me everyday you was gonna be this big rockstar lol.. I can't even imagine what you was dealing with and going through you're at peace now baby boy #ripreese #llr 230 likes 3 DAYS AGO Add a comment... Post ces

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The following day, WIlloughby's girlfriend posted about his death on Instagram.[3] She wrote, "All he wanted was for us to win as we battled all his mental demons." The post received more than 23,000 likes in two days (shown below, left).

Additionally, Instagram[4] user @the_yvesdropper posted about Willoughby's suicide. They wrote, "Over the weekend Reese killed himself after the relentless taunting, bullying, mocking and disrespect he received after publicly proclaiming his love for his girl, and you know what breaks me about this? Is that when it comes to discussing the weight of transphobia and homophobia in the black community, especially amongst those who should speak up on it, all you hear is crickets?" The post received more than 19,000 likes in two days (shown below, right).


princess_wild_kat - Follow princess_wild_kat No matter wat know everything bae @reesehimdaddie and I'm goin make sure your story is told and the right way f--- da clout chasing cause it happened just as you said nobody was goin to hear you or us for that matter until it got to level 10 you was my everything until those pills took total control and took you away! All he wanted was for us to win as we ofalener battled all his mental demons but I got left being the only one tryin to get help cause he gave up hope as my friends and family and his grandma tried to help and keep me alive while I tried to save him before this point HE WASNT SCARED OF ANYONE SO HE FOUGHT BACK FOR US! HE WANTED TO TELL HIS STORY THRU HIS MUSIC AND NOW I GOTTA TELL IT BAE YOU 23,264 likes 2 DAYS AGO Add a commen... Post
the_yvesdropper Follow the_yvesdropper No matter how s----- the times are in which we live sometimes you find something out and you're just like, how could this happen? how could we let this happen? The couple in this photo is beautiful Reese and his girlfriend Faith. Reese was a black cisgender male, his girlfriend Faith, is a black transgender woman Taith Over the weekend Reese killed himself after the relentless taunting, bullying, mocking and disrespect he received after publicly proclaiming his love for his girl, and you know what breaks me about this? Is that when it comes to discussing the weight of transphobia and homophobia in the black community, especially amongst those who should speak up on it, all you hear ic orielkote2 t'e no 0aot that auen. 19,216 likes 2 DAYS AGO Add a comment... Post

That day, Twitter[5] user @AshleeMPreston tweeted, "When a man is confident & secure enough to openly love a trans woman; this is the bullying and harassment he gets. When trans attracted men kill us; it’s out of fear that this will happen to them if they are outed. Reese didn’t kill his girlfriend; he killed himself instead. #RIP." They also included a video that had gone viral in which Willoughby being taunted for dating a transwoman. The tweet received more than 3.9 million views, 66,000 likes and 22,000 retweets in two days (shown below).

Several media outlets covered the hashtag, including Advocate,[6] The Daily Dot, [7] Blavity[8] and more.

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CallMePhoenyxx @PhoenyxxFlame Two notes: 1) TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN!!!! 2) W-- is wrong with the world when even love is attacked?!?!?! #ripreese 8:06 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for Android
Rogue HART @humblehartmusic N----- Be Talking S--- About Openly Gay CisGender Men But Do Gay S--- All The Time Behind Closed Doors. Homophobic Cowards! Y'all Some Bitches Foreal #RIPReese 1:51 PM Aug 20, 2019 Twitter for iPhone
Jason (Wakanda MCU Phase 4) @EscaflowneClown Heterosexual Black males are out here causing DEATHS and TRAUMA to other Black bodies because of said person sexuality or gender identity. WHEW CHILE #RIPReese Y'all got white colonists oppressive mindsets. Y'all need to be DEPROGRAMMED. CHILE 10:39 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter Web App

JaLeel Marques @Jahlilyyy Straight black males when they realize another black male is living his best life dating a transgender woman while they're miserable and single. #ripreese 9:30 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for iPhone
kat @katwilderness it's hard enough living openly as a trans woman, we not only have to worry about being killed just for being who we are but we also have to worry about the ones closest to us being hurt bc of who we are as well. this world is f----- up. resse didn't deserve to die. #ripreese @AshleeMPreston Aug 20 Ashlee Marie Preston When a man is confident & secure enough to openly love a trans woman; this is the bullying and harassment he gets. When trans attracted men kill us; it's out of fear that this will happen to them if they are outed. Reese didn't kill his girlfriend; he killed himself instead. #RIP 0:27 3.9M views 6:52 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for iPhone
Jade Phoenix Martinez @_Jade_Phoenix_ Transphobia kills. Literally. Trans women are always at the tipping point of violence, it's where we exist, the men that love us are either in the cross hairs of that violence or internalize it and enact it themselves. Kill your transphobia before it kills us. #ripreese 7:39 AM Aug 21, 2019 from Diamond Bar, CA Twitter for iPhone .

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#RIPReese is a hashtag cataloging the discussion surrounding the death of Maurice "Reese Him Daddie" Willoughby, who committed suicide in August 2019. The hashtag has also been used to bring awareness to violence and bullying against the transgender community and those who have relationships with transgender people, referencing a video in which Willoughby is bullied for having a romantic relationship with a transwoman.

Origin

On August 19th, 2019, the website Aazios[1] reported that Maurice "Reese Him Daddie" Willoughby had committed suicide. While they note that Willoughby suffered from depression, the article reports, "Friends say a lot of the bullying stemmed from the fact that he was so open" about dating a transwoman.

That day, Instagram [2] user @g0ddessssss posted a picture of Willoughby. They ended the post with the caption "#ripreese." The post received more than 200 likes in one week (shown below).


goddessssss Follow goddessssss When I first met you cursed you out for staring at me... you said I was gorgeous so l couldn't be mad. then we got to know each other. I remember I woke up at looked at my phone and saw a paragraph from you that made me smile.. but I knew you before you even knew yourself... we had that talk and the next day you came to school with colorful box braids in your hair & black nail polish. I couldn't even be mad because I knew... you were just living your truth You use to tell me everyday you was gonna be this big rockstar lol.. I can't even imagine what you was dealing with and going through you're at peace now baby boy #ripreese #llr 230 likes 3 DAYS AGO Add a comment... Post ces

Spread

The following day, WIlloughby's girlfriend posted about his death on Instagram.[3] She wrote, "All he wanted was for us to win as we battled all his mental demons." The post received more than 23,000 likes in two days (shown below, left).

Additionally, Instagram[4] user @the_yvesdropper posted about Willoughby's suicide. They wrote, "Over the weekend Reese killed himself after the relentless taunting, bullying, mocking and disrespect he received after publicly proclaiming his love for his girl, and you know what breaks me about this? Is that when it comes to discussing the weight of transphobia and homophobia in the black community, especially amongst those who should speak up on it, all you hear is crickets?" The post received more than 19,000 likes in two days (shown below, right).


princess_wild_kat - Follow princess_wild_kat No matter wat know everything bae @reesehimdaddie and I'm goin make sure your story is told and the right way f--- da clout chasing cause it happened just as you said nobody was goin to hear you or us for that matter until it got to level 10 you was my everything until those pills took total control and took you away! All he wanted was for us to win as we ofalener battled all his mental demons but I got left being the only one tryin to get help cause he gave up hope as my friends and family and his grandma tried to help and keep me alive while I tried to save him before this point HE WASNT SCARED OF ANYONE SO HE FOUGHT BACK FOR US! HE WANTED TO TELL HIS STORY THRU HIS MUSIC AND NOW I GOTTA TELL IT BAE YOU 23,264 likes 2 DAYS AGO Add a commen... Post the_yvesdropper Follow the_yvesdropper No matter how s----- the times are in which we live sometimes you find something out and you're just like, how could this happen? how could we let this happen? The couple in this photo is beautiful Reese and his girlfriend Faith. Reese was a black cisgender male, his girlfriend Faith, is a black transgender woman Taith Over the weekend Reese killed himself after the relentless taunting, bullying, mocking and disrespect he received after publicly proclaiming his love for his girl, and you know what breaks me about this? Is that when it comes to discussing the weight of transphobia and homophobia in the black community, especially amongst those who should speak up on it, all you hear ic orielkote2 t'e no 0aot that auen. 19,216 likes 2 DAYS AGO Add a comment... Post


That day, Twitter[5] user @AshleeMPreston tweeted, "When a man is confident & secure enough to openly love a trans woman; this is the bullying and harassment he gets. When trans attracted men kill us; it’s out of fear that this will happen to them if they are outed. Reese didn’t kill his girlfriend; he killed himself instead. #RIP." They also included a video that had gone viral in which Willoughby being taunted for dating a transwoman. The tweet received more than 3.9 million views, 66,000 likes and 22,000 retweets in two days (shown below).

Several media outlets covered the hashtag, including Advocate,[6] The Daily Dot, [7] Blavity[8] and more.

Various Examples


CallMePhoenyxx @PhoenyxxFlame Two notes: 1) TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN!!!! 2) W-- is wrong with the world when even love is attacked?!?!?! #ripreese 8:06 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for Android Rogue HART @humblehartmusic N----- Be Talking S--- About Openly Gay CisGender Men But Do Gay S--- All The Time Behind Closed Doors. Homophobic Cowards! Y'all Some Bitches Foreal #RIPReese 1:51 PM Aug 20, 2019 Twitter for iPhone Jason (Wakanda MCU Phase 4) @EscaflowneClown Heterosexual Black males are out here causing DEATHS and TRAUMA to other Black bodies because of said person sexuality or gender identity. WHEW CHILE #RIPReese Y'all got white colonists oppressive mindsets. Y'all need to be DEPROGRAMMED. CHILE 10:39 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter Web App
JaLeel Marques @Jahlilyyy Straight black males when they realize another black male is living his best life dating a transgender woman while they're miserable and single. #ripreese 9:30 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for iPhone kat @katwilderness it's hard enough living openly as a trans woman, we not only have to worry about being killed just for being who we are but we also have to worry about the ones closest to us being hurt bc of who we are as well. this world is f----- up. resse didn't deserve to die. #ripreese @AshleeMPreston Aug 20 Ashlee Marie Preston When a man is confident & secure enough to openly love a trans woman; this is the bullying and harassment he gets. When trans attracted men kill us; it's out of fear that this will happen to them if they are outed. Reese didn't kill his girlfriend; he killed himself instead. #RIP 0:27 3.9M views 6:52 AM Aug 21, 2019 Twitter for iPhone Jade Phoenix Martinez @_Jade_Phoenix_ Transphobia kills. Literally. Trans women are always at the tipping point of violence, it's where we exist, the men that love us are either in the cross hairs of that violence or internalize it and enact it themselves. Kill your transphobia before it kills us. #ripreese 7:39 AM Aug 21, 2019 from Diamond Bar, CA Twitter for iPhone .

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