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What Sexuality Is That? refers to a comic by StoneToss in which three people proudly holding bisexual, transexual and gay pride flags ask a man holding a Ukrainian flag, "What sexuality is that?" with the Ukrainian flag holder answering, "Findom," which is short for "financial domination," a fetish. The comic was posted online by StoneToss in January 2023 and became the subject of edits over the following years as an exploitable meme, particularly on the /r/Stonetossingjuice subreddit, in which the Ukrainian flag and the punchline of the joke are altered. The format is very similar to the 2022 What Pride Flag Is That? meme, which is also derived from a webcomic.

Origin

On January 12th, 2023, X^[1] user and comic artist @stone_toss posted a comic that garnered over 14,000 likes and 980 reposts in two years. In the comic, three members of the LGBTQ+ community holding their representative pride flags ask a man holding a Ukrainian flag, "What sexuality is that?" The man answers, "Findom," meaning "financial domination," a fetish that involves a submissive person giving a dominant person money. In this case, the comic is meant to criticize foreign financial aide going toward Ukraine.

The comic first became the subject of edits that day. One of the earliest known edits was posted by Redditor u/mrtoddw that day to the subreddit /r/dankmemes^[2] and references the My Little Pony fandom, garnering over 6,500 upvotes in two years.

Spread

The comic became the further subject of edits over the following months. On January 23rd, 2023, a now-deleted Redditor posted an edit to the subreddit /r/19684,^[3] garnering over 3,900 upvotes in two years.

On May 11th, Redditor u/MajimaSupremacy posted an edit to /r/TylerTheCreator^[4] in which the flag has been replaced with an image of the album cover for Tyler, the Creator's album Igor, garnering over 2,100 upvotes in two years.

In March 2025, the format saw an influx of edits on the /r/StoneTossingJuice subreddit, which is dedicated to edits of StoneToss comments in the style of Bone Hurting Juice memes.

For example, on March 6th, 2025, Redditor u/The_angry_Zora13 posted a version of the meme to /r/StoneTossingJuice^[5] that gained over 2,500 upvotes in a week, also posting a template for the meme.

On March 11th, Redditor u/DavidoxRT posted an edit to the subreddit^[6] referencing WhatsApp that gained over 17,000 upvotes in two days.

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