The one doesn't exclude the other. Wasn't there a story about a twitch streamer-girl that lost followers, because they found out they got a boyfriend?

Don't hate the player (in this case the streamer thots), hate the game.

That may be new in the West, but that is why in Japan idols have to sign contracts where they state they will not get into a relationship because companies fear losing their investment if a relationship is discovered. Aya Hirano was the biggest scandal I've ever seen because she didn't have a boyfriend, she is just very very promiscuous, like "you grab, you get" promiscuous. She almost don't gets new roles anymore.