"[ā¦] if someone disagrees with any sort of homosexual lifestyle, everyone hates them."
You want to know why? It's because, in doing so, they show how much they hate anyone who's different from them. In other words, it shows their stupidity and inability to view things through other peoples' eyes. And that's why people hate them, because they're being stupid and intolerant.
And that's exactly what the (former) Duck Dynasty person did. His whole "vaginas are better than anuses" thing is just his opinion, but the way he proclaimed it, along with him likening gay people to other "sinners", was just stupid, and showed (well, confirmed) he's a hateful person.
Now, of course, everyone's entitled to their opinions. But, as I always say, freedom is no excuse for stupidity. If your opinion happens to be hugely unpopular, then you probably should keep it to yourself. I, personally, am of the opinion that a man's anus has much more to offer than a vagina (think prostate). Nobody should care about that, and nobody should care that only a small portion of the population shares that opinion.
But it's when people start disparaging everyone who disagrees with them that they take it too far. I, for example, don't call straight people 'idiots', 'losers', and 'mindless apes driven only by the urge to mate' for preferring the opposite gender. I doubt many straight people would take kindly to that. Likewise, I don't like to be called 'sinner' or 'abomination' or 'mentally ill' because I'm gay.
So, if someone disagrees with my "homosexual lifestyle" (which, by the way, is the stupidest term ever), that's one thing, but if they start trying to make me feel inferior because of it, then that's going too far.
Many people argue that the pro-gay backlash against the Duck Dynasty guy is a sign of religious persecution against Christians. To that I say "Call me when you get beaten to death for walking down the street wearing the cross on a necklace, THEN we'll talk about persecution." Because when it comes down to it, Christianity is a choice, and being gay is not. If you're going to hate someone for being different, it's marginally more justifiable to do so because they chose to be different, rather than because they were born different. Not that it's actually justifiable in either case.
I'm not 100% sure A&E did the right thing in suspending him from the show, though. I mean, it was pretty clear that he was a bigoted redneck from the get go, and that's really the whole point of the show (I think). So why now? Because GLAAD got mad? That seems likely, because GLAAD is influential.
And that's where my argument swings both ways. GLAAD is, shall we say, not the most tolerant of rights groups. It's no PETA, but it sure has had its share of controversy. I think there is a double standard to some extent when it comes to people being too afraid to disparage gay people out of fear of being labeled a hater. I remember a case in England where a pair of really abusive gay foster parents slipped through the system for years because social workers were too afraid of being called homophobic to report it.
So when people start to play the victim, again, that's breaking my "freedom is no excuse for stupidity" rule. Because yes, you may be a victim of homophobia, but the minute you start exaggerating it is the minute you start losing moral support from others.
So basically, here's what I think: you can express your opinions all you want, but be aware of what you're saying and any possible backlashes that may come from it. If the Duck Dynasty guy had said "I don't like gay sex", then that's perfectly okay. If he had said "I don't like gay sex, and I hate gay people because of it", that's less okay, but still, he's entitled to that opinion. But what he said was something like "I don't like gay sex, and all gay people are sinners akin to drunks, terrorists, and zoophiles, who will be damned for eternity by God", and that's going a little too far.
There are plenty who disagree with that statement, and naturally, plenty who agree. But I suppose if you're stupid enough to enjoy Duck Dynasty, you're stupid enough to hate people for being different.