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Hey Mamas Lesbians / TikTok Lesbians

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Hey Mamas Lesbians, sometimes called TikTok Lesbians is a slang term used to describe a type of LGBTQ+ person and a group particularly active on TikTok post-2019. In early 2020, a group of masculine-dressing, mostly white lesbian women who post thirst trap content went viral for making a video in which they all take turns saying, "Hey mamas," a classic lesbian greeting for their community. The phrase then came to be known as a derogatory way to describe such lesbians who are considered to be cringy by many in the gay community.


Sometime in February 2020, a group of lesbian content creators on TikTok posted a now-deleted video compilation of them saying "Hey mamas" in a flirty manner. The video was posted to the TikTok account @themacthatsmilesback and gathered an unknown number of views and likes before removal. The video can be accessed via a February 24th, 2020, Duet by fellow content creator @bithoeji,[1] where it gathered over 40,000 plays and 6,000 likes in two years. (seen below).

@bithoeji #duet with @themacthatsmilesback ♬ original sound – mac

The "Hey mamas" compilation video was widely recognized when it first went viral on TikTok, with various Twitter users noting their disdain for the upload.[2][3][4]


The phrase "hey mamas" or "hey mamas lesbian" came to be used to describe a certain genre of gay women on TikTok in subsequent years. Key members of the community on TikTok include the users @averycyrus, @hannah.raisor48 and @themacthatsmilesback, among others.

On November 13th, 2020, TikToker[7] @its_piper posted a video ranking various "hey mamas" lesbians on the app, gathering over 200,000 plays and 19,000 likes in two years (seen below).

@its_piper all but the last one are just jokes I love them all (tag who u see) #JustDanceMoves #greenscreen #OnHold #BeKind #fyp #lgbt ♬ Spongebob Tomfoolery – Dante9k Remix – David Snell

On September 5th, 2020, TikToker[5] @emgracedawg posted a video in which they joked about how one can dress like a "hey mamas" lesbian, including wearing a backward snapback hat and a basketball jersey. The video gathered over 700,000 plays and 190,000 likes in two years (seen below, left). On October 13th, TikToker[6] @kyliexsullivan posted a video reacting to an audio made by a "hey mamas" lesbian, in which the person can be heard saying "you're such a good slut," receiving over 7,300 likes in a similar timeframe (seen below, right).

@emgracedawg WISHING YOU ALL SO MUCH LUCK ON THIS SPECIAL JOURNEY! xoxoxo, emgrace😫💕 #fyp #lesbians #inneed #igotyou #heymamas ♬ original sound – emgracedawg 😎


Stop hey mama lesbians 2020 WHOEVER MADE THIS TREND I H8 YOU😭😭😭

♬ Im not a bottom im a top – gaylxrd888

On November 24th, 2021, TikToker[8] @claireecowles posted a sketch featuring a "hey mamas" lesbian, gathering over 4.2 million plays and 1.1 million likes in a year (seen below, left). On February 14th, 2022, TikToker[9] @notstraightkait posted a video in which she identified the typical markers of a "hey mamas" lesbian, gathering over 430,000 plays and 58,000 views in a year (seen below, right).

@claireecowles Reply to @mxi_..san @moneybagg.m0 four months later #wlw #lgbt #gay #fyp ♬ original sound – claire

@notstraightkait Reply to @verticaldancer92 a very particular group, to be sure. #heymamaslesbian #lesbiantiktok #wlw #alphabetmafia #edugaytion #masclesbians #gaytiktok #queer #lgbtq #babygay ♬ original sound – Kait

On December 24th, 2022, TikToker[10] @allemims posted a series of videos discussing the nuances of calling someone a "hey mamas" lesbian when the general aesthetic for the community is purportedly derived from Black stud lesbian culture.

@allemims Replying to @amorallygrace maybe I’m giving way too many people the benefit of the doubt and assume they are making fun of yt people when it def could be both/either 😅 #lesbian #lgbtq #heymamas ♬ original sound – Alle Mims

Various Examples

@rachanaye live ended #lgbt #lgbtq ♬ original sound – Rachel

@aliyahmariee13 #greenscreen #greenscreenvideo she was a moment #wlw #fyp #xzybca #lgbtq #xzybca #heymamas ♬ original sound – Aliyah
@delaneybbrownn This was so funny to make #foryo #heymamas #heymamaslesbian #fyp ♬ original sound – Delaney Brown

@cupofjo_ DICLAIMER: everyone’s toxic trait does not relate to them. (Besides competitive hey mamas) Inspired by Fmoney. @emgracedawg #lgbt #lesbian #wlw #heymamas ♬ original sound – Jo

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External References

[1] TikTok – bithoeji

[2] Twitter – tantalizing_irl

[3] Twitter – Liv_livinlife

[4]  Twitter – lovedpink

[5] TikTok – emgracedawg

[6] TikTok – kyliexsullivan

[7] TikTok – its_piper

[8] TikTok – claireecowles

[9] TikTok – notstraightkait

[10] TikTok – allemims

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