Try to Understand
![Old meme from an "It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia":/memes/subcultures/its-always-sunny-in-philadelphia episode in which the "gang tries to beat the heat":https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1636178/ which had a character that kept denying Dennis and Dee entry to the pool under the pretext that We Are At Capacity, perhaps a precursor to this meme in some way.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/646/140/bf2.jpg)
![Old meme from an "It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia":/memes/subcultures/its-always-sunny-in-philadelphia episode in which the "gang tries to beat the heat":https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1636178/ which had a character that kept denying Dennis and Dee entry to the pool under the pretext that We Are At Capacity, perhaps a precursor to this meme in some way.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/646/140/bf2.jpg)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
hey 👋 I was wondering if I could talk to you about the big dog that is stuck biting into my ass like from a cartoon Hey! I'm actually at my emotional...
![Nick Ciarelli @nickciarelli I was wondering if I could talk to you hey about the big dog that is stuck biting into my like from a cartoon Hey! I'm actually at my emotional capacity mental energy to help you through this particular crisis rn. Do you have a pungent steak that the dog could smell? 4:11 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter Web App](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/491/3bb.png)
![Nick Ciarelli @nickciarelli I was wondering if I could talk to you hey about the big dog that is stuck biting into my like from a cartoon Hey! I'm actually at my emotional capacity mental energy to help you through this particular crisis rn. Do you have a pungent steak that the dog could smell? 4:11 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter Web App](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/491/3bb.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
me as a therapist: so how are you doing this week patient: well it's been rough, I— me: sorry but I'm at capacity and this is a lot of emotional lab...
![garrett @garrettdunc me as a therapist: so how are you doing this week patient: well it's been rough, - me: sorry but I'm at capacity and this is a lot of emotional labor right now 3:46 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for Android](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/489/328.png)
![garrett @garrettdunc me as a therapist: so how are you doing this week patient: well it's been rough, - me: sorry but I'm at capacity and this is a lot of emotional labor right now 3:46 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for Android](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/489/328.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Hi, does everybody have the mental/emotional capacity right now to read a tweet about how the olives keep rolling off of the hummus toast I made even ...
![let @coyote_time Hi, does everybody have the mental/emotional capacity right now to read a tweet about how the olives keep rolling off of the hummus toast I made even though I thought the hummus would work as a gluing agent? I just like to ensure consent for this kind of emotional labor 12:45 PM Nov 19, 2019 from Los Angeles, CA Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/487/1c0.png)
![let @coyote_time Hi, does everybody have the mental/emotional capacity right now to read a tweet about how the olives keep rolling off of the hummus toast I made even though I thought the hummus would work as a gluing agent? I just like to ensure consent for this kind of emotional labor 12:45 PM Nov 19, 2019 from Los Angeles, CA Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/487/1c0.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Hey! I’m so glad you reached out. I’m actually at capacity because I’m crying over Baby Yoda right now, and I don’t think I can hold appropriate space...
![patrick @batr1k Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity because I'm crying over Baby Yoda right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Do you have someone else you could reach out to? 12:31 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/486/f4b.png)
![patrick @batr1k Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity because I'm crying over Baby Yoda right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Do you have someone else you could reach out to? 12:31 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/486/f4b.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Adam: Did I request thee, Maker, from my clay to mould me Man, did I solicit thee from darkness to promote me? God: Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. ...
![Columbo's Fake Wife @SlayerofCis Adam: Did I request thee, Maker, from my clay to mould me Man, did I solicit thee from darkness to promote me? God: Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity/helping someone else who's in crisis/dealing with personal issues and I don't think I can hold appropriat 11:18 AM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter Web App](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/485/a67.png)
![Columbo's Fake Wife @SlayerofCis Adam: Did I request thee, Maker, from my clay to mould me Man, did I solicit thee from darkness to promote me? God: Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity/helping someone else who's in crisis/dealing with personal issues and I don't think I can hold appropriat 11:18 AM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter Web App](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/485/a67.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Thomas Sankara: “As revolutionaries, we don’t have the right to say we are tired of explaining. We must never stop explaining. We know that when the p...
![thank god for dead pilgrims @babadookspinoza Thomas Sankara: "As revolutionaries, we don't have the right to say we are tired of explaining. We must never stop explaining. We know that when the people understand, they cannot help but follow us." Me: "Hey Thomas! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity right 12:27 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/484/4f8.png)
![thank god for dead pilgrims @babadookspinoza Thomas Sankara: "As revolutionaries, we don't have the right to say we are tired of explaining. We must never stop explaining. We know that when the people understand, they cannot help but follow us." Me: "Hey Thomas! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity right 12:27 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/484/4f8.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
(replying to my boss’s email asking me to please start showering and using deodorant) - Hey! I’m so glad you reached out. I’m actually at capacity at ...
![no problem @DukeHonkin (replying to my boss's email asking me to please start showering and using deodorant) Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity at the moment and i don't think i can hold the appropriate space for this. Could we connect at a later date, 4:44 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/483/cb4.png)
![no problem @DukeHonkin (replying to my boss's email asking me to please start showering and using deodorant) Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity at the moment and i don't think i can hold the appropriate space for this. Could we connect at a later date, 4:44 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/483/cb4.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Friend is like “hey I just finished a first mix of my new record, you wanna check it?” and I’m like “Hey! I’m so glad you reached out. I’m actually at...
![C. Spencer Yeh @Cspenceryeh I just finished a first mix of my new Friend is like "hey record, you wanna check it?" and l'm like "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity right now..." 1:20 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/482/ae9.png)
![C. Spencer Yeh @Cspenceryeh I just finished a first mix of my new Friend is like "hey record, you wanna check it?" and l'm like "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity right now..." 1:20 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/482/ae9.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
GEORGE: Jerry! My hair dryer ruined the picture of Man-Hands! I need another one or I can’t get back into the forbidden city!
![Patrick Monahan @pattymo GEORGE: Jerry! My hair dryer ruined the picture of Man- Hands! I need another one or I can't get back into the forbidden city! JERRY: "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Could connect [later date or time] instead / Do you have someone else you could reach out to?" 3:45 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/424/c92.png)
![Patrick Monahan @pattymo GEORGE: Jerry! My hair dryer ruined the picture of Man- Hands! I need another one or I can't get back into the forbidden city! JERRY: "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Could connect [later date or time] instead / Do you have someone else you could reach out to?" 3:45 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/424/c92.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Hey, I’m so glad you reached out. I’m actually at capacity / helping someone else who’s in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I ...
![brendon bouzard @brendonbouzard Hey, I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity / helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you Recents Fraud Risk 3:21 PM (i San Antonio, TX Fraud Risk 1:04 PM (i San Antonio, TX 3:29 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/422/16a.png)
![brendon bouzard @brendonbouzard Hey, I'm so glad you reached out. I'm actually at capacity / helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you Recents Fraud Risk 3:21 PM (i San Antonio, TX Fraud Risk 1:04 PM (i San Antonio, TX 3:29 PM Nov 19, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/422/16a.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
Midsommar
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
PS: Someone reached out and asked for an example of how you can respond to someone if you don’t have the space to support them.
![Melissa A. Fabello, PhD @fyeahmfabello PS: Someone reached out and asked for an example of how you can respond to someone if you don't have the space to support them. offered this template: "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out I'm actually at capacity / helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Could we connect [later date or time] instead / Do you have someone else you could reach out to?" 4:09 PM Nov 18, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/411/cc3.png)
![Melissa A. Fabello, PhD @fyeahmfabello PS: Someone reached out and asked for an example of how you can respond to someone if you don't have the space to support them. offered this template: "Hey! I'm so glad you reached out I'm actually at capacity / helping someone else who's in crisis / dealing with some personal stuff right now, and I don't think I can hold appropriate space for you. Could we connect [later date or time] instead / Do you have someone else you could reach out to?" 4:09 PM Nov 18, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/411/cc3.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity
I want to chat briefly about this text that I received from a friend last week:
![Melissa A. Fabello, PhD @fyeahmfabello I want to chat briefly about this text that I received from a friend last week: Do you have the emotional/mental capacity for me to vent about something medical/weight-related for a few minutes? 2:10 PM Nov 18, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/masonry/001/645/403/a32.png)
![Melissa A. Fabello, PhD @fyeahmfabello I want to chat briefly about this text that I received from a friend last week: Do you have the emotional/mental capacity for me to vent about something medical/weight-related for a few minutes? 2:10 PM Nov 18, 2019 Twitter for iPhone](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/645/403/a32.png)
I'm Actually at My Emotional Capacity