Me when i play a MMO for the first time:
Log in
Everyone is overleveled
Try to look for a group
Every group is really thight-knit
They probably know eachother IRL or since the beginning of the game
That is IF they even acknowledge you
You have to make a group with the rest of the newbies
THEN you realize why nobody talked to them, and by extension you
Also realize you are too lazy to greentext in KYM