Ill throw my hat into the ring.

I wont argue that futa isnt sorta gay, but it isnt fully gay. Since futa is purely fictional, you can argue that futas are female that happen to have dicks. Its not that gay unless they have dick and balls, but no pussy then its really gay. Watching futa on girl is LESS gay than straight porn, because its 2 chicks rather than 1 girl 1 dude

Now here's why traps are SUPER GAY. If you get caught by a trap, its not your fault. You just leave and be on your day. IF YOU WILLINGLY JERK OFF TO TRAPS THATS GAY. BECAUSE ITS A DUDE AND YOU KNOW IT.

As long as you're still also attracted to real women as well, then liking traps would be bi, not gay.