Ugh, I feel like we all have this, where we see about harming others, including those that we truly like, but focus on that one thing that angered you years ago, that they more than made up for. But in reality, you would never actually follow through with these thoughts, because you're better than that. Far better than that.

I despise this feeling. I hate thinking these thoughts.

Intrusive thoughts are an interesting social phenomenon, indeed.