After that rant, looks like some one needs some

I think you are really misunderstanding what I am trying to get across here. I don't blame you, my wording was weird. First off, I shouldn't have used the word "offended" but it does still make me mad. Obviously, being pro choice, I think a mother (and father if applicable) does have a right to decide whether or not to have a baby and in the end the decision is theirs and theirs alone. But with an argument like in the OP, it demonizes the other side that is trying to save unborn lives and that is where my jimmies get in a jam. I am not a fan of demonizing any sides in a political issue and that's what I feel the "Pro-life is out to control women" argument is out to do.