Overview

Destroy Lonely Abuse Allegations refers to a series of tweets posted and subsequently deleted by Opium label rapper Destroy Lonely's ex-girlfriend, Ayisha Mia, in late June 2024. In the posts, Mia alleged that Destroy Lonely and her would often fight physically and that he "cracked" her "head open" in one incident in Germany. She also posted photos of her bleeding head and of Destroy Lonely harassing and following her friend in Paris. Mia also claimed that Destroy Lonely would call Don Toliver homophobic slurs, threaten to kill her and get mad at her for posting photos of herself online lest he lose aura points. The controversy and allegations quickly sparked discourse and media coverage online shortly after Mia's initial posts.

Background

On June 24th, 2024, Destroy Lonely's ex-girlfriend Ayisha Mia (@ayisha.mia) made a series of posts on X^[1] / Twitter alleging that Destroy Lonely was abusive and mean to her. She posted photos of injuries she allegedly sustained from his attacks and recounted incidents in which he was overly controlling of her. The posts gathered several thousand likes apiece before they were deleted (seen below).

She also posted a since-deleted video of Destroy Lonely following her friend into a bathroom in Paris. In the video, Mia's friend can be heard saying, "Tell them what you just said, how much you love her," while Destroy Lonely begs her to delete the video with folded hands (which later went viral on its own).

Destroy Lonely was caught following his girlfriend’s friend to the bathroom and then started begging once he saw he was being recorded pic.twitter.com/DGQYioiUXK

— SWB 💫 (@ykkswb) June 24, 2024

Developments

Destroy Lonely^[2] responded to the accusations against him in a series of since-deleted tweets on June 24th, 2024. Among other posts, he wrote, "Hoes mad," and that he, "Never cracked nobody skull ask my manager."

Online Reactions

Redditors on the subreddit /r/PlayboiCarti^[6] reposted both Mia and Destroy Lonely's posts and discussed the validity of the allegations, with many users noting Destroy Lonely's worries about losing aura points and other anecdotes that made him seem "corny."

On June 24th, 2024, X^[3] user @FearedBuck posted a screenshot of a fan defending Destroy Lonely, writing, "Destroy Lonely fans are unreal, the shorty talking about getting abused and u saying it was to promote the album 😭😭," and gathering over 17,000 likes in a day (seen below).

Also on June 24th, X^[4] user @deathintunes posted a fake tweet made to seem like Mia was insinuating that Destroy Lonely and Carti have intimate relations. The post gathered over 9,000 likes in a day (seen below, left).

The video Mia posted showing Destroy Lonely begging her friend to delete her recording of him also became a meme, as seen in a post by @slimeyness^[5] on June 24th, 2024, that gathered over 30,000 likes in a day (seen below, right).

Related Memes

Destroy Lonely Begging

Destroy Lonely Begging refers to a viral video of OPIUM rapper Destroy Lonely begging and pleading. It was leaked amid the Destroy Lonely Allegations levied by the rapper's ex-girlfriend Ayisha Mia (@ayisha.mia) who accused him of several transgressions via Twitter / X in June 2024. The alleged context of the video was that Destroy Lonely was caught following Mia's friend to the bathroom who was purportedly the one filming. The video of Destroy Lonely begging and screenshots of it became memes on social media platforms like TikTok and Reddit, mostly because it challenged the idea of the rapper's "aura" and reduced his "aura points." Both are related to a perception of the video being cringe which is then compounded by the seriousness of the allegations against the rapper.

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