Okay, where's the hypocrisy? It seems pretty consistent to me, as with both "don't try and destroy people's lives over perceived slights" and "don't celebrate because someone you despise is sick", the point of concern seems to be "please have some degree of basic human decency". Are they trying to cancel these people, or just call them out on being shitty?

Conservatives on Cancel Culture: "It's our right to say whatever we want, and if you get offended, that's your problem!"
Conservatives on Trump memes: "You aren't allowed to say that, it's offensive!"