Abjectly ludicrous. If I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with someone, I damn well am gonna want to be with someone that has a got damn personality of their own. I don't need other people to conform to reflect me, I already get too much of myself as is. Someone that than can challenge you when necessary will lead to becoming a stronger, better person. If self-improvement isn't manly, I don't know what is.

Don’t tell me what to be attracted to.