Since Selym didn't come, I will do it myself.

First of all, all those deaths were caused by wars, so it's unlikely they were related to gender violence.

Second of all, you haven't specificated the timespan, so you could have skewed the results by using an even larger timespan than the length of those wars to get an abnormally large number.

Third of all, you're using the almost-never-used-it-was-used-only-a-million-times Appeal To Worse Problems Fallacy: Because there are less men being killed than womyn, then men's deaths are rendered trivial in contrast to us wimmin's issues, like every man being a rapist and us being victims of the patriarchy.