This isn't feminism, it's common friggen sense.

yep, let's simply ignore the fact that she's something between 12-18, which makes her a hormone driven idiot. I'm not even about her being a girl, it's just fact that pubescent teens know nothing yet believe to know everything and end up doing almost everything wrong they can do wrong. and I mean, we learn from mistakes, yes, but I wouldn't call "she got tricked by some handsome douchebag and then he took her virginity" a simple mistake to learn. as a parent, you're supposed to teach and protect your child, not say "yeah just go out there and fuck around", because she's either gonna come home heartbroken and sad, or as a slut. YOU are the experienced father/mother who gives her tips, and decides whether you can allow her to make that experience herself or make sure that she doesn't take the wrong path. you wouldn't allow your 12yo to start doing drugs because s/he like it, would you? but no, it's "his/her own body and s/he makes the decisions".