![Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be A Bad Thing Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be A Bad Thing meme depicting Woody Harrelson in True Detective.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/mobile/000/053/132/cover2.jpg)
Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be A Bad Thing
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About
Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be a Bad Thing refers to a series of caption memes based on a scene in which True Detective character Martin Hart (portrayed by actor Woody Harrelson) is talking about his partner, remarking that a man past a certain age who doesn't have a family can be a red flag. In 2024, the scene achieved virality as a caption format and phrasal template, using the phrase "Past a Certain Age a Man Without / With X Can Be a Bad Thing," with users captioning a still image of Hart with jokes about men "past a certain age" keeping or trying to get into jobs and occupations usually associated with young adults or children.
Origin
On January 12th, 2014, episode one, titled "The Long Bright Dark," of season one of the anthology crime drama series True Detective premiered.[1] In the episode, the character Martin Hart (Woody Harrelson) talks about his former partner Rustin Cohle, remarking that past a certain age having no family can be a bad thing (scene shown below).
Yeah, I’ll tell you guys, and believe me, past a certain age, a man without a family can be a bad thing.
On June 17th, 2024, X[2] user @twocitizenships posted the earliest found meme based on the scene, making a joke about men who still have a mood board past a certain age. The post (shown below) received over 160 likes in eight months.
![''Past a certain age, a man with a mood board can be a bad thing'' clusk @twocitizenships וא "Past a certain age, a man with a mood board can be a bad thing" • 11:28 AM ⚫ Jun 17, 2024 6,195 Views ...](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/273/207.jpg)
Spread
On August 28th, 2024, X[3] user @loganclarkhall shared the earliest viral meme based on the format. The post (shown below) garnered over 590 reposts and 12,000 likes in six months.
![“past a certain age, a man without a groupchat full of patriots dedicated to spreading propaganda can be a bad thing.” SPORT Logan Hall @loganclarkhall ✓ ... "past a certain age, a man without a groupchat full of patriots dedicated to spreading propaganda can be a bad thing." 4:21 PM ⚫ Aug 28, 2024 856.8K Views](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/274/cd3.jpg)
The format saw more use in mid-September 2024. For example, on September 14th, X[4] user @mbirdcollector made a version about men who listen to Chappell Roan and Boygenius, which received over 860 reposts and 16,000 likes in five months (shown below).
!["Past a certain age a man listening to Chappell Roan and boygenius can be a bad thing, believe me." those who know @mbirdcollector "Past a certain age a man listening to Chappell Roan and boygenius can be a bad thing, believe me." 2:12 PM ⚫ Sep 14, 2024 488.7K Views](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/275/69d.jpg)
The format regained online popularity in February 2025 after X[5] user @HighyieldHarry posted a meme on February 9th, 2025, about one's job involving Microsoft Excel based on the format. The post (shown below) received over 140 reposts and 4,700 likes, with more memes based on the format following in the next few days.
!["Past a certain age a man still talking about excel shortcuts can be a bad thing, believe me." High Yield Harry @HighyieldHarry ☑1 "Past a certain age a man still talking about excel shortcuts can be a bad thing, believe me." 1:58 PM Feb 9, 2025 204.4K Views](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/304/576.jpg)
Various Examples
![past a certain age a man still typing in lowercase can be a bad thing, believe me rosey @thechosenberg וא past a certain age a man still typing in lowercase can be a bad thing, believe me 4:55 PM Feb 10, 2025 297.1K Views ... :](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/306/a05.jpg)
![Past a certain age a man still trading memecoins can be a bad thing, believe me. Nat Eliason @nateliason Past a certain age a man still trading memecoins can be a bad thing, believe me. 9:41 PM Feb 10, 2025 2,717 Views ...](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/307/0b7.jpg)
![past a certain age a man still working as a software engineer can be a bad thing, believe me sophie ✔ @netcapgirl past a certain age a man still working as a software engineer can be a bad thing, believe me 3:35 PM Feb 10, 2025 655.3K Views ... :](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/305/8ef.jpg)
!["past a certain age a man still talking about neovim and linux distros can be a bad thing, believe me" snoopy.jpg @snoopy_dot_jpg ✓ "past a certain age a man still talking about neovim and linux distros can be a bad thing, believe me" 3:26 PM Feb 9, 2025 104.1K Views .](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/303/453.jpg)
![“past a certain age, leaving your house on the weekend can be a bad thing, believe me” sophie ✔ @netcapgirl X ... "past a certain age, leaving your house on the weekend can be a bad thing, believe me" 5:09 PM Sep 14, 2024 157.3K Views](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/280/bff.jpg)
!["Past a certain age, a man still trying to sell B2B SaaS can be a bad thing, believe me." Boring_Business @BoringBiz ☑ "Past a certain age, a man still trying to sell B2B SaaS can be a bad thing, believe me." 8:30 PM ⚫ Jan 5, 2025 17.4K Views](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/003/006/300/e90.jpg)
Template
![Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be A Bad Thing A reaction image of Martin Hart talking and gesturing with his hands, primarily used in Past a Certain Age a Man Without a Family Can Be A Bad Thing memes.](https://a.kym-cdn.com/assets/blank-b3f96f160b75b1b49b426754ba188fe8.gif)
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External References
[1] IMDb – The Long Bright Dark
[2] X – @twocitizenships
[3] X – @loganclarkhall
[4] X – @mbirdcollector
[5] X – @HighyieldHarry
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