![If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Were meme.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/mobile/000/029/957/cover3.jpg)
If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are
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About
If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are is a copypasta originating from a March 2012 4chan post, used online to convey feelings of profound sadness and being unable to change one's circumstances. The screenshot of the post has been used online as an exploitable, often edited into images of people wearing an expression of suppressed internal suffering.
Origin
On March 2nd, 2012, an anonymous 4chan user posted "if only you knew how bad things really are" to an unknown board (original post no longer available).
![If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are Template Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No.1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/803/c98.jpg)
Spread
In the following years, the expression appeared in multiple posts on 4chan, including posts on /a/,[1] /pol/[2] and /int/[3] boards. The earliest post containing the phrase currently available online was made in /a/ board on June 11, 2012.[1]
Between March 2nd, 2012 and May 26th, 2014, an anonymous 4chan user combined the image with the photograph of the US President John F. Kennedy smiling yet having a sad expression in his eyes (shown below, left). On May 26th, 2014, an anonymous 4chan user made the earliest post containing the image currently available online in the /int/ board (shown below, right).[4] In the following days, posts containing the image appeared in /pol/,[5] /r9k/[6] and other boards.
![If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are Kennedy Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No.1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/833/177.jpg)
![/int/ Post #24954668 /int/ Anonymous Mon 26 May 2014 15:40:11 No.24954668 View Report You have all made a grave mistake.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/834/024.jpg)
In the following years, the screenshot of the post was edited onto images of various people wearing an expression of supressed suffering. For example, on October 12th, 2015, an anonymous 4chan user posted a meme based on a photograph of American presidential candidate Bernie Sanders (shown below, left).[7] On May 23rd, an anonymous 4chan user posted a similar meme using a photograph of American actor Elijah Wood (shown below, right).[8]
![Bernie Things Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No. 1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/861/607.jpg)
![If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are Elijah Wood Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No.1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/842/4a3.jpg)
Various Examples
![I'm having a good time Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No. 1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/844/e82.jpg)
![](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/847/9d9.jpg)
![If only you knew how bad things really are Donald Trump Anonymous 03/26/18(Mon)14:28:17 No.165488929 If only you knew how bad things really are](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/838/756.jpg)
![If Only Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No.1921453 If only you knew how bad things really](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/856/ad3.jpg)
![If Only Ted Cruz If only you knew how bad things really are](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/867/913.jpg)
![If Only Sam Hyde Today at the jim manina Ht shicr called mea fat toddlera to stop makingnoises anid to airtfetend Ffotiowed Aim out where Hearnec that he drive ayora Tacomawith the Rhee SOse plate # 4AP CNO and a per sticker. Jawas unable edue to traffic but this is Leard from me. this is osom Salt Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No. 1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/865/0dd.jpg)
Templates
![If Only You Knew How Bad Things Really Are Template Anonymous 03/02/12(Fri)17:39 No.1921453 If only you knew how bad things really are.](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/499/803/c98.jpg)
Search Interest
External References
[1] 4chan – /a/ Post #66998963
[2] 4chan – /pol/ Post #24860274
[3] 4chan – /int/ Post #9885762
[4] 4chan – /int/ Post #24954668
[5] 4chan – /r9k/ Post #11897045
[6] 4chan – /pol/ Post #30439364
[7] 4chan – /tv/ Post #61679529
[8] 4chan – /pol/ Post #74834066
Top Comment
hexadeca_guncross
Jun 06, 2019 at 12:10AM EDT