Attention Whore

Attention Whore

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ACAUTION Attention W----- Do not approach

About

Attention Whore is a pejorative label used to describe someone who solicits attention from others through unnecessary or overbearing means. On the web, the slang term can be used to reprimand attention-seeking messages or behaviors on discussion forums and social networking sites, in similar vein to the use of karma whores.

Origin

The earliest known use of the term "attention whore" can be found on Everything2 Wiki in a discussion thread about the axiom "It's better to be hated than to be ignored"[1] posted on May 19th, 2000. After a forum member named rue asked what other users thought of the phrase, a user named moJoe claimed he had been called an "attention whore" on the site previously, but would prefer to have his posts ignored than misunderstood. He then went on to prove that he was not an attention whore by providing a story of how he blew off a girl who had attempted to talk to him.


(idea) by moJoe Fri May 19 2000 at 2:48:29 Hmm, I am going to have to saaaayyy.. no I think it is better to be ignored than misunderstood or that it is better to be hated then to be smothered, but I cannot say I give a s--- either way if people choose to ignore me. For someone who has been called an attention w----, this may come as a shock to most of you, but for the most part I dislike people and shun them on a regular basis I would truly rather be left alone in my day to day dealings than to have random people I have never met before approach me on the streets and try to talk to me. I blew off a "cute" girl just last night that tried to talk to me while I was in line to get my cocoa at the cafe across the street. I know whom I like and whom I don't like within about 15 seconds of meeting them or even being exposed to them. I would say I am correct about people and their nature with a 90% accuracy, and I don't like most of them, so why bother caring what they do? When it comes to the few people on this planet I do care for, they get all my attention and they don't get to ignore me. :P I can empathize with those whom have little voices and get walked all over by everyone because of it. To them it may be better to be hated than ignored, but not to everyone I can assure you. Hatred makes me leery, being leery requires some of my attention; being ignored requires no energy on my part at all I like it!

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In January 2001, the "insecure attention whore" was listed as a rock fan cliche on the Straight Dope message board.[2] In July 2001, a member of the alt.y2trolls Usenet group was called out for being an "attention whore"[3] by another poster who pleaded others not to play into her demands. In November 2002, a member of the North American Subaru Impreza Owners Club[4] began a conversation on the difference between an "attention whore" and someone who simply likes to post often. While most posters agreed that the difference mainly depended on the humor and entertainment value of the posts, FunkerVogt distinguished the former by the person's self-absorbed or pitying tendencies, usually to solicit compliments, sympathy, or recognition. The same year, similar discussions about dating attention-seekers were started on the Honda-Tech forums[6] and the Love-Scent message board.[7] In May 2003, the phrase was defined for the first time on Urban Dictionary[5] and later featured as the Urban Word of the Day on October 19th, 2009.



1. attention w---- f 13932 up, 1054 down October 19, 2009 Urban Word of the Day Label given to any person who craves attention to such an extent that they will do anything to receive it. The type of attention (negative or positive) does not matter. You're such a GD attention w----! buy attention w---- mugs & shirts by Jonny_B May 9, 2003 add a video add to a list

In 2004, the term was referenced in the action role-playing game Vampire: The Masquerade – Bloodlines as an unlockable quest. Over the course of the next two years, many critical discussions of "attention whores" appeared on male-centric message boards including Bodybuilding.com[9], eBaum's World[10], Tilted Forum Project[11], The Straight Dope[12] and Godlike Productions.[13] By 2005, some people had begun to self-identify as attention whores, acknowledging that they would go out of their way to seek recognition by falsely playing a female character in an MMORPG[14] or by posting seductive photos of themselves[15] (shown below).


Dec-12-2005, 12:54 #1 BabyFacedAbortion Registered+ Join Date: Posts: Oct-30-2005 3,298 So I'm an attention w----..and damn good at it. Yay, I'm bored as s---...my school got let out early because the power went out so here I am, spamming up the board with my face. <3 E Attached Thumbnails

In 2006, an Uncyclopedia entry[16] for the phrase was created. The following year, The Daily Kos[17] posted an article by Cindy Sheehan, a U.S. antiwar activist whose son was killed during the Iraq War, about being called an attention whore after she announced she was taking a break from activism. In 2009, house music producer deadmau5 released a collaborative song with singer/songwriter Melleefresh titled "Attention Whore" (shown below). In 2011, a WordReference forums user started a thread[18] seeking help translating the phrase into French, but no exact translation was found.



In May 2013, Rookie Magazine[19] investigated the judgement and envy that goes into deeming everyone people attention whores, leading to a similar article on Jezebel[20] looking at the covert misogyny that exists in the term, as it is mostly reserved for females who depart from traditional stereotypes. These points were reinforced in a Huffington Post[21] piece about the implications about women typically being labeled attention whores. As of August 2013, attention whore is regularly used on Reddit[22] and 4chan.[23] It can also be found as a hashtag on Tumblr[24], Twitter[25], Facebook[26] and Instagram[27], where it has been used on nearly 55,000 photos.

Notable Examples


ZOIDBURG The brotha just wants some friends MISSPELL ATTENTION W----! You're it! motifake.com ATTENTION W----- LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME ATTENTION W------ It's not for everybody
POSTED AT ATTENTION W---- Can you guess which one? o/ MotivatedPhotos.com ATTENTION W---- This isn't your moment, Oprah motifake.com This image is hosted on ebaumsworld.com Attention W---- You're never too old to be needy.

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External References

[1] everything2 – It's better to be hated than ignored

[2] Straight Dope – Rock cliches

[3] Google Groups Archive – alt.y2trolls: MONA IS QUEEN ATTENTION WHORE

[4] NASIOC – What's the difference between being an attention whore, and just having a lot to say?

[5] Urban Dictionary – Definition for "attention whore"

[6] Honda-Tech – How to spot an Attention WHORE!!!!!

[7] Love-Scent – Battle tactics and ways to deal with "attention whores"

[8] GameBanshee – Vampire: Bloodlines: Attention Whore

[9] Bodybuilding.com – The fine line between alpha male and attention whore

[10] eBaum's World Forum – Look At Me, Im an Attention Whore

[11] Tilted Forum Project – attention whore – why does it bother me so much?

[12] The Straight Dope – Suicide Post… A Cry For Help, Or Attention Whore

[13] Godlike Productions – How to handle a Attention Whore?

[14] Something Awful – I was an Everquest attention whore

[15] Cannabis.com – So I'm an attention whore..and damn good at it.

[16] Uncyclopedia – Attention Whore

[17] The Daily Kos – "Good Riddance, Attention Whore"

[18] WordReference – attention whore

[19] Rookie – Shameless Women

[20] Jezebel – In Defense of the Attention Whore

[21] Huffington Post – Why We Need To Rethink The 'Attention Whore' Label

[22] Reddit – Search Results for "attention whore"

[23] Foolz Archive – Search Results for "attention whore"

[24] Tumblr – Posts tagged #attentionwhore

[25] Twitter – Search Results for #attentionwhore

[26] Facebook – Results for #attentionwhore

[27] Statigram – Photos tagged #attentionwhore

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