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Top Me
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About
Top Me is a slang term used among LGBTQ fans of celebrities on Twitter inviting their favorite celebrities to dominate them sexually.
Origin
The phrase employs the "top/bottom" dynamic used in some queer relationships. An Urban Dictionary definition from 2003 defines "top" as a gay man who prefers to give than receive anal sex.[1] Over time, this evolved to mean the partner who takes the lead in sexual situations in queer relationships (shown below).[2]
![Pleasure Giver A top A phrase used by lesbian or gay referring to who is dominant, who is'a top a top on top, the pleasure giver. I told him/her that i wanted to please him/her to their every sexual desire, they replied" I do it the opposite way, im a top." #top #gay #lesbian #on top #sex. by justwantstopleazu June 16, 2009](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/130/163.png)
In June of 2018, LGBTQ users began using the phrase "top me" as a means to gush about their favorite celebrities. One of the earliest known examples, posted June 2nd, was posted by Twitter user @kashymcgraths[3] with regards to Irish actress Katie McGrath (shown below).
![Katie McGrath e amy Follow @kashymcgraths [chanting] top me top me top me 9:20 AM -2 Jun 2018](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/131/c47.png)
Spread
One of the most popular celebrities to be featured in these sorts of tweets was Rachel Weisz, who entered a queer relationship in the 2018 film The Favourite. After the movies release, several people tweeted variations of "Top me, Rachel Weisz." Some examples include a tweet by @ethiopienne that gained over 520 retweets and 3,300 likes (shown below, left). User @hopelesslyysad tweeted the phrase at the end of her review of The Favourite, gaining over over 70 retweets and 500 likes (shown below, right).
![Rachel Weisz Hannah Giorgis @ethiopienne Follow top-and i can't stress this enough-me, rachel weisz gettyimages 8:28 PM-24 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/152/b1d.jpg)
![The Favourite I want Eva Green to suffocate me.. @hopelesslyysad Follow The Favourite (2018) Rachel Weisz and Emma Stone are both absolutely outstanding, but Olivia Colman's performance is the epitome of perfection, it's bigger and better than the movie itself. Summarizing my thoughts: Emma, Rachel and Olivia please top me, I deserve it 9:34 PM-16 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/159/8c3.jpg)
Other popular tweets using the phrase include a tweet by @noicezarile that gained over 100 retweets and 490 likes (shown below, left). Of note, this tweet included the phrase "I deserve it," which has also been popularly used in the meme. Another example, tweeted by @galendeathstar, gained over 200 retweets and 580 likes (shown below, right). The meme was covered by The Daily Dot.[4]
![Deserve It leana @noicezarlie Follow top me i deserve it 9:38 PM-28 Dec 2018](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/167/1c9.jpg)
![I Deserve It kaz. Follow V @galensdeathstar top me. i deserve it 10:33 AM-19 Nov 2018](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/169/9a0.jpg)
Various Examples
![For My Gay Ass rachel weiszD @cvteblunt Follow rachel weisz, for the sake of my gay ass please top me 12:48 PM 5 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/173/54b.jpg)
![Marvel academy award thranduil oropheri... @lokified Followv please top me i deserve it 12:21 PM-6 Jun 2018](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/175/ae6.jpg)
![Lily Tomlin supreme @gracesfonda Follow lily tomlin, f----- top me please, goddamn! 6:16 AM - 22 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/177/a3d.jpg)
![orange is the new black Tashaa @JunkieForOITNB 2é±¼. Follow This was such a look..top me 7:54 AM - 23 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/180/a33.jpg)
![Brie Larson Follow @mcurevengers TOP ME OH KY GOD PLEASE MAAMI DESERVE IT gettyimage gettyimages 8:15 PM 24 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/182/dcd.jpg)
![Jason Momoa Alexis "Bring Back Bunheads" Wil... @sassyblackdiva Follow I want Jason Momoa's Fendi scrunchie to top me. 8:33 PM -24 Feb 2019](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/466/183/6b2.jpg)
Search Interest
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External References
[2] Urban Dictionary – A Top
[3] Twitter – @KashieMcGraths
[4] Daily Dot – ‘Top me’ is the new way to thirst for your favorite celebrities
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