About

Alpha Dom or Alpha Dom1c, also known by his username @Alpha..Dom1c, is an influencer and dating coach best known for his "Alpha Dominance In Dating" course that looks to teach men "how to understand the female mind." Alpha Dom began posting videos to TikTok offering dating advice in mid-2023 and became the subject of criticism for his content in March 2024, with many finding his dating advice unrealistic, unhelpful and creepy. In particular, a video in which he claims you "do not need to accept rejection from a woman" became the subject of widespread criticism, including by YouTuber Cr1tikal.

Online History

Alpha Dom posted his first video to his TikTok^[1] account, @alpha..dom1c, on August 8th, 2023, garnering around 3,400 views in eight months. In the video, he offers a piece of dating advice and encourages viewers to visit his website, alphadom1c.com,^[2] where visitors can purchase his "Cracking the Alpha Dating Mind" video dating course for a one-time fee of $197.

Dom continued to regularly upload videos in which he gives small pieces of "alpha dating advice," usually while sitting in his car. One of his first more notably popular videos was posted to TikTok^[3] on September 13th, in which he rejects the idea that luck gets him girls, that women are not just attracted to looks and that over 1,000 women have done "adult activities" with him, garnering over 250,000 views (shown below, left).

On October 16th, 2023, Dom posted a video to TikTok^[4] responding to a commenter asking him "are the women in the room with us?" in which he has a woman in the room with him call him "master," garnering over 130,000 views in six months (shown below, right).

On March 13th, 2024, Dom uploaded a podcast to his YouTube^[5] channel in which he discusses his relationship dynamic and approach to relationships while sitting with Brat, one of his purported "six women." He begins the video by describing how he handles first dates as an "alpha," claiming that after a first date, he texts the woman to come to his place, pats her down, cuffs and blindfolds her, brings her to the living room and questions her while she's on her knees. He describes himself as a "BDSM dom" and then goes into how he met Brat.

"You Don't Always Have To Accept Rejection" Video

On March 15th, 2024, Dom posted a video to TikTok^[6] about how men "don't always have to accept rejection" from women, garnering over 800,000 views in a month (shown below). In the video, he recalls a situation in which a woman rejected him and he said, "Why would you not be interested in me? I'm the best," then invited her to his house and explained to her his BDSM lifestyle. The video was met with heavy criticism online, with many finding the premise of his claims problematic and cringeworthy.

Online Presence

"Cracking the Alpha Dating Mind" Video Course

Alpha Dom's content mainly serves to funnel viewers to his website, alphadom1c.com, where they can purchase his "Cracking the Alpha Dating Mind" video course for $197. On the site, the description of the course reads:

Are you tired of feeling like you're stuck in the friend zone, unable to attract the partners you desire? Do you want to become the confident, magnetic, and alpha version of yourself in the dating world? Welcome to "Cracking the Alpha Dating Mind," a transformative video course designed exclusively for men ready to unleash their true potential and conquer the dating game like never before.

The description goes on to list six areas of improvement that the course purportedly offers, reading:

1. Crush Limiting Beliefs: We delve deep into the subconscious to identify and eradicate limiting beliefs that have held you back in your dating life. Empower yourself with a rock-solid mindset that exudes confidence and dominance.

2. Discover Your Alpha Identity: Uncover the traits that define the alpha male and learn how to embody them authentically. Gain the self-assurance and charisma that will draw potential partners to you like a magnet.

3. Mastering the Art of Attraction: Learn the art of seduction and attraction, mastering body language, facial expressions, vocal tone, frame and verbal techniques that will make you irresistible to women.

4. Effective Communication Strategies: Develop excellent conversational skills and understand the power of active listening to create meaningful connections with your dates.

5. The Alpha Dating Lifestyle: Embrace a lifestyle of abundance and choice in the dating world. Learn how to navigate social circles, approach groups confidently, and leave a lasting impression.

6. Overcoming Dating Challenges: Conquer dating challenges head-on, from handling rejection gracefully to navigating online dating with ease.

Criticism

Following the release of his "don't accept rejection" video in March 2024, Dom became the increasing subject of criticism on TikTok and YouTube. On March 18th, 2024, TikToker^[7] @therobbieharvey posted a video criticizing the video, garnering over 1.3 million views in a month (shown below, left).

On March 22nd, TikToker^[8] @misha_lector_ posted a video doubting that Brat is actually in a relationship with Dom, hypothesizing that she is an escort and that they filmed their podcast together in a hotel room, garnering over 120,000 views in a month (shown below, right).

On April 15th, 2024, YouTuber^[9] penguinz0, aka Cr1tikal, posted a video in which he criticizes Alpha Dom and numerous examples of his content, calling him the "creepiest dating coach ever," garnering over 2.6 million views in a week (shown below).

Personal Life

Little is known about Alpha Dom's personal life. On his website, his "About" page features an artistic rendering of Dom along with a description of his purported achievements in being a dating coach (shown below).

Alpha Dom is considered the pinnacle of dating expertise. At the age of 16, he realized his shortcomings in the dating realm, experiencing friend zones and instances of infidelity. Rather than blaming women, he took a realistic approach and embarked on a quest to uncover the ultimate code to successful dating. After extensive study and research into various dating methods, he isolated the code that generates immense attraction. Alpha Dom discovered how to wield power over women, driving them to a state of obsession and making them prioritize him above all else. He became the ultimate selector.

Over a span of 15 years, he honed his strategies to decimate his competition. Along the way, he recognized the significance of assisting other men in achieving what he had accomplished. It became apparent that by helping men enhance their influence over women, he not only helped them fulfill their desires but also answered women's prayers to meet a man like him. He shared his knowledge to make the world a better place, demonstrating to both men and women that their fantasies could become reality. Alpha Dom became the epitome of dating expertise, teaching methods and techniques that were unmatched by anyone else. Now, you stand face-to-face with a dating legend. The choice is yours: Do you allow yourself to reach your potential, or do you let him help the next person? So, what will it be?

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